Condolence: I was deeply saddened by the news of Bernie’s death. I worked with Bernie on several projects at Yale University and his professionalism and dedication was an inspiration. But mostly I will remember Bernie as a wonderful person.

Condolence: Jeanette: So Sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers. Alice

Condolence: Dear Janette - My sympathy to you and your family. Although I never met your husband, I can remember talking and laughing with you when we worked together at Tetley, sharing little stories and anecdotes about our families. I'm so sorry that God has called him home so soon. Love and prayers, Sandy

Condolence: Dear Janette and Family - We are saddened to hear the sudden death of Bernard. On behalf of your BPA Dubai family, our deepest sympathy, sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray that Bernard will find peace with our Almighty God (Our Creator). And may the comfort of God be with you to make you strong and also with your family,relatives and friends during this difficult time. John 14:1-3 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.

Condolence: To all members of the greater Hayden family, we would like to extend our deepest sympathy for your loss. We know most members of the family, and will pray for all of you. To some extent we grew up with the family, meeting in 1964 and visiting frequently over the years. We will always remember the good times as well as the difficult times and will pray for you.

Condolence: Very few have a the great pleasure of working with a Father and son team. Both have meant the world to me. Bernie help me grow and Bernie Jr was the smiling brother I never had. They were both great guys to work and have fun. Muriel remembers the great xmas parties at ADS where our families first met. Over the years we worked hard for Mother Yale and reminded me that Yale sometime could be a REAL Mother. But we always gave 110% and had fun doing it. Both men have been in my prayers and as part of my family they will always be in my prayers. Rose has to be happy, she has both her boys with her. I am sorry we will not be there on Saturday, Muriel and I will be out of town as we get ready for our trip to Italy. So you can be sure, that I will put in a good word with the Pope when I see him. God Bless your family, and know they will always be with me.

Condolence: We were shocked when we were notified of (little) Bernie,s passing. We remember watching him grow up to become a fine young man. Janette, Shawn and Chelsey, you have our deepest sympathy. Our prayers go with you.

Condolence: Our deepest condolences, We are deeply saddened by the sudden death of Bernie. I am honored to call someone so utterly devoid of the ability to do anything other than speak the truth my friend. His enthusiasm, work ethic, and unflinching determination serve as an example for us all. Though our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family the lessons learned by those lucky enough to have known him will live on. -Matt

Condolence: Dear Janette and your family, I am deeply saddened to hear the news about Bernie's sudden passing. My utmost sympathy and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Russ Haderer

Condolence: To the Hayden family, I am very sorry and shocked to hear of the passing of Bernie. I worked in his department at Yale (MIS) in the early 1990's, and remember that he was always a friendly, respectful person. So sad for your loss.

Condolence: Dear Janette: I was deeply saddened to learn of Bernie’s death and on behalf of Robyn and myself, would like to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. It was so unexpected, which makes it even harder on those of us who share your grief. Bernie was highly respected by managers and employees alike throughout the entire Yale community. I regarded Bernie as a visionary as did anyone who ever worked with him. Bernie’s contributions, especially to RIS, during his many years of dedicated and selfless service were many and varied. He was a major part of the extensive technological expansion across the department. Believe me, his contributions to RIS and Yale will not be forgotten. Please accept our heartfelt condolences to you and your children. Bernie was a remarkable guy. Knowing him personally as I did for many years, I am well aware of the difference he made in the lives of many people, both at RIS and in his private life. We will miss him terribly. Our sincere sympathy.

Condolence: Those we love don’t go away, They walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed and very dear. To all of the Hayden family, may the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead. Thank you for all the memories, your contagious laughter and witty sense of humor Bernie, until we meet again my friend, this Buds for you.

Condolence: Hi Janette - So sorry about the devastating news. My prayers are with you. Susan Black

Condolence: PLEASE ACCEPT MY SINCERE PRAYERS FOR BERNIE AND YOUR FAMILY --THE WORLD HAS LOST A GREAT MAN -- MAY HIS LOVE OF LIFE LIVE ON IN YOUR HEARTS -- LOVE BITTY "P"

Condolence: Janette, I am so sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer for you and for your family. -Sarah Bojarski

Condolence: Janette, I am truly sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

Condolence: Dear Janette, I'm very sorry to hear the news concerning your husband Bernie. It's tragic when you loose anyone but even more so when that someone is so special to you and also so young. I will say a prayer for both of you. Jack Glagowski

Condolence: I just heard about your loss. I am so sorry, Bernie was way to young. My sincere sympathy goes to Maureen, Brenda and the rest of the Hayden family. I'm sorry I can't be at the funeral, but I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love, Bob Rosa

Condolence: Janet, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. The 4 of you made a wonderful family. The love and pride that Bernie felt for you showed through. I pray that you will continue to feel his love and that it will give you strength. Love, Lisa